Metacognition and Your Business 🧠👀 (Power of Critical Thinking)

Brian uses a fancy word to talk about critical thinking in your life and business.

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Metacognition and your business.

Hi I’m Brian Pombo, welcome back to Brian J. Pombo Live.

Today I want to talk about metacognition, which is basically the science of, you know, thinking about your thinking, okay. I love this topic, it’s one of my most favorite things to talk about is something having to do with our thinking.

And it all starts with us thinking about what we’re thinking, not about what we’re thinking, but thinking about our thinking or itself, thinking about the thinking process, thinking about how we think, why we think, and everything around that idea.

This is the most some of the most fascinating things that I’ve ever thought about. And considered and actually made some of the largest changes of my life based on the concept of metacognition.

Now I’ve never, honestly, I’ve never used the term metacognition, I think I may have looked at it once when I was taking psychology classes in college but forgot about it.

And just recently, I was looking at things all about thinking about your thinking, and that term came up. So I thought I thought that was interesting.

Besides the term itself, this is something that gets brought up a lot by Dan Sullivan.

If you ever listened to Dan Sullivan, you could find him on a whole lot of podcasts out there, including one of my favorites. So, Welcome To Cloudlandia, this was the one that was that’s hosted with Dean Jackson.

It was also previously called, The Joy of Procrastination.

I’ve discussed it before, Dan Sullivan is the one that heads up that he’s both the creator and the lead mind over at Strategic Coach, where they talk a lot about thinking and stepping back and looking at why we do the things we do and how we can make slight tweaks to be able to create different results in our life.

And this is another thing that came into my mind when I was going back and looking at this book, Keep Going. I’ve talked about this one before previously, keep going by Austin Lleon, Awesome book.

I love Austin’s books, they’re simple, they’re straightforward, very little to read on each page.

So you can make a whole lot of progress quickly and this the idea that he brings up, I don’t always agree with every last idea in here. But they’re definitely causing you to think about what you’re thinking.

This particular page I wanted to bring your attention to, he says pay attention to what you pay attention to. It’s really kind of a microcosm of thinking about your thinking. And I really liked what he says here, I wonder I wanted to read some of this for you.

He says your attention is one of the most valuable things you possess, which is why everyone wants to steal it from you. First, you must protect it. And then you must point it in the right direction.

As they say in the movies, careful where you point that thing. What you choose to pay attention to is the stuff your life and work will be made of my experience is what I agree to attend to psychologist William James wrote in 1890, only those things which I notice shaped my mind.

We pay attention to the things we really care about. But sometimes what we really care about is hidden from us.

I keep a daily diary for many reasons. But the main one is that it helps me pay attention to my life, by sitting down every morning and writing about my life. I pay attention to it. And over time, I have a record of what I’ve paid attention to.

And he goes on and on about the importance of diary or journal writing. Great stuff.

I think the first step is to realize I think we all to some extent or another think about what we’re thinking, think about how we think, think about our thinking and some context, but probably we don’t do it enough and we don’t question it enough.

We don’t question what where thoughts are coming from or whether they’re necessary or whether they’re habitual and everything else and how to go about either maneuvering around them, ignoring them, backing up from them, questioning them, you know, how do you go about doing that, but the first step I think is really paying attention to what you pay attention to.

That comes on a moment-by-moment basis. But it also comes at looking at it on a daily basis and whatever you need to be able to do that.

One of the things that I do is I got it. The easiest way for me to be able to work person through this process, because I’m a business strategist. So I work with different people that own businesses and help them get from point A, where they’re at, to point B where they want to be, right?

And to get you just focused on that point, and taking you day by day and said, Okay, why were we not able to make this step from here to here, what’s getting in our way?

That brings us all back to mindset. And the people that I work with the best of the people that are most open, about digging in there, into their own brain, watching what you’re doing on a daily basis, watching your thoughts on a daily basis, watching your emotions on a daily basis, and not getting obsessed about it.

But quite the opposite, just having enough perspective where you notice it, if you could just start noticing things, your whole life will start changing, I can pinpoint a period of time when I started noticing my thoughts.

And over time, I’ve gotten better and better and better.

At least I hope I’ve gotten better at backing away, and not getting caught up with it with all the things that I’m going through. But in the best-case scenario, being subjective to it. I mean, being objective to it, excuse me, at little Freudian slip there being objective to it being just far enough away, that I don’t have to claim it.

And I can just kind of watch it and see it and see where it leads me and not get take so much credit for everything that goes through your brain as if you intentionally meant for it to be there, right?

I know there’s a little bit of a deeper thing. But if you could start just noticing things, it’ll make a huge difference, of course to your entire life, and then initial and then eventually it’ll, it’ll result in better business, which is what we try and promote here.

So if you really want to build a better business, go check out my book, 9 Ways to Amazon-Proof Your Business. These are more wide range concepts of ways that you can change your business in the long run. These aren’t going to make huge dramatic changes overnight. This is more long-term strategic changes. 9 Ways to Amazon-Proof Your Business.

You could buy it anywhere but you can also get a free copy at AmazonProofBook.com.

We’ll be back here tomorrow night. In the meantime, get out there, start noticing things and let the magic happen.

Bite Your Tongue 👅 (Quote from Dan Sullivan, of Strategic Coach)

Brian shares a quote about Tombstone Talk from Strategic Coach’s Dan Sullivan, and the importance of self confidence, and the lack of self confidence.

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Bite your tongue.

Hi I’m Brian Pombo, welcome back to Brian J. Pombo Live.

I heard a good quote today by Dan Sullivan. If you’re not familiar with Dan Sullivan, he runs Strategic Coach, which is an organization that works with business owners to kind of take their mindset to the next level.

And he always has some interesting thoughts, he’s on a lot of podcasts, you can you can look him up.

He mentioned about tombstone talk. And it’s the idea that people, especially after a certain age, start talking, and I’m guilty of this completely, start talking about being too old.

Not that not being young enough to do the next thing, and not having enough time left to do what they want to do.

All this talk that basically set you up for an early death. And that you’re making it easy, you’re making it too easy for death, the common getcha type of thing.

And I think it’s true to a certain extent that you really can do, I think you do more damage to yourself by talking it, then you can even do positive for yourself.

I know, there’s a whole lot of talk about positive self talk. And I get it to an extent, I think it’s more important to not do the negative self talk, you know, to watch what you say, and why.

Because what you’re saying, is what you’re thinking and it feeds into your thoughts.

And if you’re careful about what you say, you can slow down your adopting of your thoughts as your own. Whereas when you start thinking something, and then you start talking it, now you’ve kind of taken it on.

It’s not a good thing to take on a lot of negative concepts. Because they pile up over time, you know, and one example of that is talking yourself into an early grave.

Another one is talking yourself into pain and suffering, you know, you take something small pains, small issues that you have, you complain about them.

And for some reason, they tend to get bigger and bolder. And everybody does that to one extent or another.

What the important thing is, is to catch yourself and not fall into doing that all the time, and we all do it. It doesn’t matter whether you’ve been successful in business, which is a lot of people that watch this, or you haven’t been successful in business, and you’re just, you’re just an average person out there trying to make it in the world, what you say matters. And that’s why a lot of people promote saying positive things.

I think that can help to a certain extent, the problem is that, I think a lot of times if if you start saying positive things that you don’t believe in, you start not believing yourself, and you start considering yourself a liar.

Then you get into the psychological loop that I’ve seen a lot of people get into, over the years where they, they can’t they don’t even trust their own words as they’re coming out of their mouth.

And you can hear it this this lack of confidence in everything that they do.

I think a lot of that comes I don’t know if it’s a chicken or egg thing, if they were just lacked confidence to begin with, or if it feeds into itself, because they don’t believe even the words that are coming out.

So interesting concept.

And I’d love to hear what you think. Leave a comment down below whether you think self talk is important or not, whether it just doesn’t mean anything, or do words actually matter, and do they feed back into your thought pattern and your thought loop?

Gotta be careful about those type of things.

It’s important to watch your thoughts important to watch your words. And I think if you do that, if you just keep an eye on it, and you don’t try and push it too far, one way or the other, you just don’t adopt every thought that runs through your head that you get into a whole lot of trouble doing that.

So this was just a little bit of a mindset exercise today. Love to hear what you think and maybe we can get more of a conversation about this as we go along.

Leave a comment down below. We’ll be back tomorrow. In the meantime, get out there and let the magic happen.

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