Who’s Got Your Ear? 👂 (Average Of The Five People You Spend Time With In Business)

You’ll always spend time with family and friends, but in business, who are the top people you spend time with?

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Who’s got your ear?

Hi I’m Brian Pombo, welcome back to Brian J. Pombo Live.

I want to talk about who has your ear?

In other words, who are you listening to, who are you paying attention to, what are you paying attention to?

Because that one little thing can make all the difference in your life.

I mean, really, it’s the smallest things, it’s the thin threads that make such a huge difference. I was talking with a friend that I hadn’t spoken to for a while, and went to go visit him today, had all my kids with me. And we were just we’re kind of running some errands.

So I visited a friend, our minds were thinking about a lot of similar things. And one of the things we’re looking at is rentals. And I’m relatively new to the concept of having rentals and so forth. But I know a little bit about it, I have family that’s involved in it.

I have family that’s involved in vacation rentals. And he was in the process of building out one of his rental spaces.

And I had mentioned to him about all those my dad has vacation rentals and telling him about my experience. And I knew a little bit about Airbnb, I was one of the earliest people involved in Airbnb before it was a popular or well-known thing to do, I was renting apartment spaces, and so forth.

When I’d go on out on business, usually, we would grab an Airbnb somewhere, so it was always always a fun thing.

So it’s something I followed along with quite a bit. And we were calling back and forth. And I can tell at one point, he like something switch, she’s like, Oh, well, maybe I should look at making this vacation, rental.

And all of a sudden, something changed.

By the end of the time, when we’re getting ready to leave, he was saying thanks for mentioning that because that might make all the difference that could change how I’m going to be doing everything here, so to speak.

And it’s not like I set out to do anything like that. But one little concept, one little tweak, one little splinter in your mind can change everything, how you do things or how you look at things.

So you really got to pay attention to who you’re paying attention to who you’re surrounding yourself with, obviously, it’s that old adage about, you know, the top five or six people that you hang around with. If you take it just on an income basis, you take the top six people you hang around with, and you take all of your incomes, and you multiply, you add them together, and then you divide them up by the sum, you’ll end up with basically what most of you make on a yearly basis.

If you just take the annual incomes of everybody that we tend to fit whoever was around, and whoever we surround ourselves with.

So what are you plugging into?

Are you listening to podcasts?

Are you reading books?

Are you doing any other type of stimulation that is helping to change your thought patterns?

Helping to direct your mind in a positive direction?

Or in the direction that you want to go?

Are you doing that, and if not, why not?

Have you thought about it?

Are you considering it sit down and actually think about Okay, what are all the different things that I watch and listen to all throughout the day?

Who are the people that I hang around, at work and beyond?

Maybe you should look at plugging into some other areas, working with a mastermind, working with consultants plugging into some people listening to the right podcast.

So I’ve got a podcast out there that be great for most of you out there that are in business, especially if you’re an executive of your business or you’re the business owner. You’re in charge if you’re one of the decision-makers in your business. I got one for you.

It’s called Brian J. Pombo Live you’re watching it right now or you’re listening to it right now subscribe, set this thing to be an automatic thing.

We could start having a conversation you comment wherever you check this out at whether it be on YouTube, or Rumble, or on the podcast itself.

If you’re just getting the audio feed for this go to BrianJPombo.com, leave a comment and give me a question.

Let’s have a conversation back and forth. Let’s see where things go.

These types of things helpful if you do them consistently, but you got to be careful about who you’re surrounding yourself with.

So check that out.

Also check out my book, 9 Ways to Amazon-Proof Your Business. If you haven’t heard about it, you can get a free copy at AmazonProofBook.com.

We’ll be back here tomorrow night. In the meantime, get out there and let the magic happen.

Untapped Genius 🧠

Interesting look at reconnecting with old friends and finding value for business relations.

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Untapped genius.

Hi, I’m Brian Pombo. Welcome back to Brian J. Pombo Live.

I was having a phone call with an old friend today. Not an old person, it’s just a friend that I haven’t spoken to in years, honestly. And we’re just catching up. And it’s amazing how I’m really surrounded by brilliant people.

I always forget that there’s just a phone call away there just a text message or a connection on social media. This was sparked by the fact that I’m starting once again, to kind of reach out to old peeps to people who I haven’t spoken to in a long time just to reconnect in social media, social media, I think gives us the false impression that we’re keeping in touch with people.

In some cases, it’s true. In some cases, you’re seeing their family, they’re seeing your family, you’re commenting on each other’s things, I think that’s keeping in touch to an extent.

But most of the people who you’re friends with on Facebook, or you’re connected with on LinkedIn, or you’re following on Instagram, most of them you’re not seeing hardly any of their stuff, because of how the algorithms run.

They don’t show you everybody, none of the social networks do by my knowledge. And it’s a shame that there’s so many people, they get lost in the rubble.

I wanted to do this, I’ve done this every couple years, I’ll go back to it. And I’m so happy when I do is I just write a list of all the people who I haven’t talked to for quite a while, people who may be I want to, I want to be in business with or people that I want to just talk to and people who I’ve communicated with in the past and just want to find out what they’re where they’re at what they’re doing.

There’s a lot of people nowadays that are shirking many forms of social social media, they’re not doing any of that stuff. And what they do do they do on a very limited basis.

These are people in younger ages to assistant just, this isn’t just people 70s and older.

There’s a lot of people that have nothing to do with social media or do it very little. And here’s why I bring this up. Here’s what it has to do with you.

If you’re thinking that you need help in your business, if you’re thinking that you need to be able to have either either people that you could depend on and talk to, and have just a friendly ear, someone that you could just gab with a little bit.

Think about all the people that you’ve lost contact with, and find a way to reach out to them find a way to track them down social media is a great way to at least start the conversation.

But I try and get it over to phone or a zoom call, you know the something with video.

I tried to do that. And I’m so happy when I do because it puts me back in the frame of mind of what they’re looking for out of life.

So if I come across something I can help them out. And at the same time, if I find that they’re looking for something that corresponds with what I’m doing, I can help them out.

But also, if I come across something where I need help, and I know they have a background, then I could take advantage of that too.

I mean, that’s what being friends and associates are all about this is it’s not just we’re friends just because we met somewhere. And that’s I mean, that’s nice. But it’s also Hey, if we can help each other out somewhere down the road, why not?

You’re surrounded by untapped genius. It’s all around you.

There’s the there’s the people that you know your neighbors and people around you and people that you work next to that you’ve never reached out naturally said hi to do it.

Ask some questions, get to know people stretch out just a little bit. Most of us are not all that comfortable with doing that. If you are great, do more of it. But spend more time most people that are comfortable with it.

They tend to be easily distracted to the next person, spend some time with people and get to know who they are, what they’re about where they’re going in life. And you never know when something like that can can wind up being an amazing serendipity.

I think it’s the word in your life. So hopefully that’s helpful to you. It’s kind of a random thought. But if you’re if you happen to watch these and we haven’t talked for a long time, reach out to me because you can wait for me to get a hold of you but I got a long list and I take my time I only call you know just a person or two a day.

So reach out to me. I’d love to talk with you and do the same for yourself.

I think you’ll see you’ll be amazed at what you what you dig up. You have a great night. Hey, check out my book. Oh, it’s not up. There it is right here my book, 9 Ways to Amazon-Proof Your Business.

Go check it out you get a free copy of AmazonProofBook.com it’s great if you own a business. If you’re looking to take it to the next level, 9 Ways to Amazon-Proof Your Business.

You have a great night. We’ll be back here tomorrow. In the meantime, get out there and let the magic happen.